Should you mention about your EX to your current girlfriend or boyfriend? The BIG simple answer is NO! As for the why, let me explain. But before we continue, let me welcome you all again after a very long pause on IC Love Tips! As mentioned on the Era 2 post, IC Love starts again after a long pause.
The last IC Love Tips was on the 16th of January where we discussed about How To Compliment Your Girl. Today we start again and now a question that many guys and girls also wonder many times is whether they should talk about their EX!
The simple and one word answer I’ll tell you is a big NO! And why? I’ll ask you a question. How do you call a person who spend most of his time criticizing his friends who are better than him instead of working to make himself better? I call him a ridiculous ass! You might call him another name. So you must be thinking what link this has with today’s topic.
I’ll take the example of a guy in this post but this post is for both girls and guys. So imagine a guy called B. So he used to had a girlfriend and they broke up. Now he is with another girl who is his current girlfriend. There are two ways only that he can talk about his ex-girlfriend! One by praising his ex-girlfriend and secondly by critisizing his ex-girlfriend.
No imagine you are with your current girlfriend and you keep praising your EX or even talk neutraly about your EX, so let me tell you that the simple result of this behaviour will be that you will simply piss her off! You imagine yourself being with a girl and if she keeps talking about her ex boyfriend, then you will feel like:
“WTF she still keep thinking about him even though being with me!”
The same concept applies too for you. Now coming to the 2nd way of talking about your EX is that you keep crtisizing her! This one is more ridiculous than the previous one. How? Ok I told you how most of us feel about a person who keeps critisizing everybody else. The same mentality applies here too. If you keep critisizing your EX girlfriend then here are the conclusions that your current girlfriend can have on you:
- Assume that you keep saying that your EX is a cheater and she cheated you! What does it means? Well it simply mean that you are shouting loudly how unattractive and a looser you are that she left you for another male! Yes this is exactly what you are doing indirectly.
- Assume you keep storytell you current girlfriend how your EX had make a pawn out of you and after using you she left you. What are you doing? Well you are again shouting so proudly that you are a DOORMAT!
So is it better to praise your ex or to critisize her? In a few words it is better you be neutral if you really have to talk about her or simply make as if she never existed! Now taking this scenario from a girl’s point of view, GIRLS simple avoid this too! You boyfriend does have a silent volcanic jealousy each time you even talk of your ex dumb mat boyfriend!
So I leave you all here and going to get back to do another work. Think about it and share your experience or opinion if you agree or not. See you! 
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selven
i do agree with yusha.. this topic is DEPRESSING